Posts Tagged ‘Family’

Day 158: 2 Kings 8:1-9:37; John 8:21-45 — Family ties

Monday, June 7th, 2010

I have been doing a little reading into my family history in the last year or so, going over papers my mother gave me and some history on the internet. We are all descended from kings and queens, I suppose. One ancestor was half brother of William the Conqueror and came to England during the raids of 1066, another, Nesta, a beautiful princess among the Welsh. So if I am descended from royalty, why am I making my own breakfast this morning? (By the way, I like making breakfast.)

Jehoshaphat brought great religious reform and was loyal to the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, the covenant brought by Moses, favored by God. Not so with Jehoram, his son. He chose to live as someone else’s child, like Jeroboam, like his mother and his wife, both the daughters of Ahab. How can a man be so doubly cursed to be both the grandchild and son-in-law of Ahab? He lived as they did and died with no one’s regret, 2 Chron. 21:20. His son Azariah lived and died a rank pagan, killed by the men of Jehu.

Jesus challenges the cantankerous Jews to own up to their true heritage. “Abraham is our father and we have never been slaves to anyone.” Jesus reveals the truth: Your blood line may be one thing, your spiritual heritage is another. Your foundation of life and your actions tell who your true “father” is. When Jesus claimed God as his Father this context may reflect his Deity, and certainly he says this later, but the point being he is the child of the one he imitates, Eph. 5:1. The counterpoint of the whole confrontation comes when Jesus forces the realities upon them: Your father, your allegiance, your true nature are known by your actions: you are the spawn of Satan, liars, hating the truth. Rejecting Jesus, later they will become his murderers.

So, I am a Celt, and a few other things. I like to play with the Irish language, and enjoy the green of the rolling fields on the emerald isle–perhaps some day I will see it with my own eyes. Yet, you can read of the beliefs and practices of ancient Celts I do not share, and a few from the 18th century Restoration leaders which I do share. I must choose each day who my “father” is, who my real “family” is. My parents came to Christ as young adults, and I am blessed that my father and mother are my “brother and sister” and my siblings are doubly my “brothers.” Yet, again, each day I must choose who my family and “Father” is, to be faithful, they cannot do it for me.

So, who is your Father?

Prayer: Thank You, Holy One, that we may call You “Father.” May our lives bear out that we are truly Your children. For Jesus sake and in His name, we thank You. Amen.

Day 91: Luke 2:41-52 — Would you want your child to be like Jesus?

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

childrenIn Luke 2:46, Jesus has been separated from his parents and is in the temple courts talking to teachers, listening, and asking questions. I have read this story hundreds of time, but this time, I was caught with a thought, would we want our children to be like Jesus? I think we would all want our kids to be like Jesus. We would want them to be at church, talking to the teachers, listening and asking questions. I think we would like Luke 2:51 especially. Can you imagine a twelve year old that obeyed his/her parents?

This whole story sounds like an April Fools joke. Then again, our modern world says that church is boring and that kids don’t like it. If you think church is boring, do you think sitting at the feet of Rabbis in the temple beats alcohol, drugs, texting, skipping school, video games, sex, etc.? You think Jesus’ Gentile contemporaries didn’t know how to have fun in the Greek world? Yet, Jesus is in the temple studying. I wonder why? Could it be because his parents took him there in the first place? Could it be that they trained him that way? I can hear it now, Randy is just an old fuddy duddy. However, I’d much rather read about Jesus in the temple than about the twelve year-old on drugs, or the ones that killed themselves, or the one who killed an older adult to get a few dollars, or the one that is pregnant — I could go on and on. I may be a fuddy duddy but you can’t tell me there is not something wrong with our families and society.

I think it is time that we teach our children to be like Jesus and to take up their cross and follow Him. Parents, it starts with us teaching through our lives, at our homes, getting involved ourselves at church, and bringing them.

Day 57: Mark 3:13-35 — Family

Friday, February 26th, 2010

familyI didn’t have a traditional family life. I joke about my Dad seeing me when I was born and left. I say that just to cover the pain of being abandoned. I read this passage in Mark 3:21 and I see that Jesus has a family that cares enough to try to intervene. They think Jesus is “out of his mind.” Jesus is on a collision course with confrontation that will lead to the cross. Jesus knows it, His family knows it, and we all know it. However, it does not alter Jesus in anyway. In fact, it intensifies. Jesus in Mark 3:31-35 redefines family. This does not mean that Jesus does not love His physical family but He reframes it and re-prioritizes it. Family is important but the family that follows the will of God is paramount.

The struggle of my family life has been a blessing in that it has helped me to see the truth Jesus proclaims about the priority of the spiritual family of God. It has allowed me to embrace the church and with all our faults find a family that goes beyond the physical to the eternal. However, I am curious about those who have close families and the struggle that this passage may create. I have known those who have been ostracized from their family because of their desire to follow God’s will. Discipleship is difficult because even though we may love our families, there is still the uncomfortable call that to follow Jesus, our families must come second. This is easy for me but for others I see the cost of discipleship is great. May God bless those of you who struggle today with the call of Christ and an unbelieving family.