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Day 334: Ezekiel 24:15-26:21; James 3, 5 — When Words Collide

Tuesday, November 30th, 2010

There is so much to talk about today. I’d like to reference Matt Wilson’s post from Sunday for a few reasons. If you have not read it, please stop now and go read it. It’s a beautiful remembrance of a beloved family member. Now imagine if he and his family were commanded not to show any sign of sorrow at her passing. It seems that is just what God asked of Ezekiel at the passing of his wife (Ezekiel 24:15-18). It’s a strange object lesson, but no stranger than some of the others God passed along through his prophets over the years.

In addition, since Matt did not cover James 3 that day I’d like to do so now. It is a powerful passage and one of my favorite. Simple, and yet extremely difficult. James is one of my favorite letters because of its simple practicality for everyday Christian living. Paul sometimes puts my mind in a twist, but James gets right to the everyday issues that I face as a Christian. James starts out by admonishing those of us in leadership (specifically teachers) to be extra careful especially in what we say (or write on a blog I suppose). The ability to keep my tongue in check is a skill I have not yet mastered and James sheds some light on just why that is. If I can control my tongue, I stand a good chance of keeping my whole body in check. Already this week in a single day I have had the opportunity to speak out harshly on two different occasions. Thankfully, in both cases I refrained from speaking immediately. In one case, others were able to say with grace and tact what I would have said with anger and spite. In another instance, I was able to think through my words with prayer and deliver a measured response. Now that I’ve used up my quota of patience and control for the week I would advise everyone to steer clear or you may receive a tongue lashing.

Finally, I’d like to consider James 5. James starts out by slamming the rich that will be put in their place because of their uncompassionate treatment of others. The words are a striking parallel to the condemnation of Tyre in Ezekiel 26. Go read it. If you are a fan of fantasy fiction like I am, it will remind you of many of the battle sequences throughout the genre (such as the Battle of Palennor Fields in Tolkien’s The Return of the King). God is very detailed in what he’s about to do to them. Our treatment of those who are suffering and downtrodden is extremely important to God apparently. Who would have thunk it?!? James continues by encouraging the Christians to patience in their sufferings.

Then we come to a passage that has long stumped me in trying to discern its meaning. I like to take the words of the Bible at face value, and yet there seems to be something missing in my understanding here. What does James mean when he writes:

Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven. Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.

I have heard different interpretations across the entire spectrum, but nothing seems to fully explain what will actually happen when I faithfully pray over someone (being the righteous person that I am). The tie in between physical and spiritual health is reminiscent of Jesus’ own words when the lame man was lowered through the roof and Jesus forgave him then healed him. Whatever the case, there is the aspect of faith when praying, confession of sins to each other, and praying for each other. Maybe I don’t need to worry about the results and just practice the process more and leave the hard part up to God.

“Who is wise and understanding among you?” Not I.

Day 253: Psalm 110; 1 Corinthians 8:7-13 — My Burning Attitude

Friday, September 10th, 2010

For some reason when I read Psalm 110 tonight the current situation with the burning of another religion’s holy text came to mind. “Sit at my right hand until I make your enemies a footstool for your feet…He will judge the nations, heaping up the dead and crushing the rulers of the whole earth.” It seems that those involved think that God has spoken these same words to them today and they are leading the fight vociferously in defense of God’s kingdom (or possibly their own). Whether this is true or not, it’s where my mind went. But then as I start to condemn them for their nasty behaviors, I jump over to I Corinthians 8:7-13.

The other emotion I feel for them besides anger is pity. I feel sorry that their hyper-condemnatory views and actions are probably turning people off to the message of Christ. I feel sorry that they live such angry lives that the only way they know to express themselves is with flamboyant displays of futility. I think a point Paul is trying to make is that how we react to situations with which we disagree or even detest especially in the sight of others is an important part of our testimony to believers and non-believers alike. Whether I think I’m the stronger or weaker brother in this situation is not even important. But if I react with anger, bile, hatred, rudeness or even apathy to the situations around me, someone is watching. It might be my 11 year old son, the neighbor across the street, a coworker, or a complete stranger.

So many times in my life I’ve unfairly judged others by standards I made up. I remember as a teenager very much having a holier-than-thou attitude towards others in the youth group who didn’t show up for every event like I did or maybe only showed up for the “fun” events like Six Flags or camp. It was also fun to criticize all the stupid rules that other adults put in place for things that go on in the church.

As I’ve grown up I’m sorry to say that some of this attitude still remains. I criticize those that aren’t as good as me and fight with those who try to put too many walls in places I don’t think they should be. Whether I’m right or wrong in my assessments is not the point. My judgments and grumblings are not conducive to the spreading of the gospel. Thankfully Paul shows us an attitude of humility. And when attacked, he doesn’t fight back. He defends his case lovingly and thoroughly. His goal is not to make himself look good but always to advance the cause of Christ and never to do anything to hinder it.

Father, give me a spirit like Paul that I may be humble and not say and do the stupid stuff that will turn others away from you.

Day 118: I Samuel 8:1-22 — “Precious”

Wednesday, April 28th, 2010

It has never been easy to live in a covenant relationship with God. No matter what period of time we live in, we want to be like the world. God led Israel out of Egypt and saved them, protected them, and loved them. Israel looks around at other countries and decides they need a king. Forget the fact that they had the Almighty as their king. Things haven’t changed much in thousands of years because we in America are not much different. We need a government (“our precious”) to take care of us. There are those that stand up and talk of a worship alternative, governmental alternatives, lifestyle alternatives. We all want an alternative lifestyle. We want change (“our precious, we must have our precious!”). We don’t want to recognize God’s sovereignty, which did not require hierarchical forms of leadership in the human community or in His spiritual church. But the lure of conformity is seductive, and the pressures toward cultural accommodation are great. Is this our “precious?” “Appoint for us a king…like other nations” (1 Samuel 8:5). The people said to Samuel, in effect, “We don’t want to be different anymore. We want to be like everyone else (“our precious”). The pressures of alternative living are too great.” One of the issues raised by this episode for the community of faith in every generation is the lure and the danger of cultural accommodation (“our precious”). Isn’t this just a big slap on the face of God? Samuel raised his rejections to having a king and God settled him down and reminded him that the people were rejecting God and not Samuel (1 Samuel 8:7). Samuel tells the people what the consequences are of rejecting God as king and getting a man to become their leader (Read 1 Samuel 8:10-18). It’s funny that these are some of the same complaints we hear today about our government.

I get a kick out of us today. We think we are so much greater than the ancients. We think we are more sophisticated. We think we have evolved but we haven’t. We still make the same mistakes and most of all we reject our God and are surprised that He gets angry at us. We want our “precious”!

Questions: When does trust in human power become a rejection of divine power? To what degree have we let our trust in human authority overshadow our trust in God? Have we become like Gollum/Smeagol searching for “our precious”?

Day 112: Judges 15:1-20 — Samson

Thursday, April 22nd, 2010

Samson states, “As they did to me, so have I done to them” (Judges 15:11). He makes this statement because he goes home to be with his wife and finds that his father-in-law has given her away to another man (Judges 15:1-2).  Samson’s anger defeats the Philistines.  A similar statement was used by the Canaanite king Adoni-bezek who was known for cutting the thumbs and big toes off of his enemies to keep them from ever fighting again (Judges 1:7).  We see within Samson a polarity between love for women who in the end betray him and yet he goes to their aide in an attempt to avenge them or save them.  What is even more interesting is that maybe Samson is experiencing what God has had to go through.  All throughout Judges, we have seen the cycle of sin by Israel.  Israel does evil, and God sends an enemy in punishment. Israel cries out in distress, and God sends a deliverer to save them. As Israel’s sin and disloyalty have increased over the course of the judges era, however, God’s love and generosity have been strained to a near breaking point. On one hand, God proclaims to Israel, “I will never break my covenant with you” (Judges 2:1). On the other hand, God threatens to end the relationship and let Israel receive its just punishment: “Yet you have forsaken me and served other gods; therefore I will save you no more” (Judges 10:13). Is this not the story of the Bible that man has sinned against God and God still wants a relationship with us.  In order to regain our relationship with God, we need a savior.  God saves us again by the blood of Christ that atones and restores our relationship with God. I am thankful that God has not ended our relationship with Him and that in Christ we have not received our just punishment.

Day 110: Judges 10:6-18 — “Oops!…I did it again.

Tuesday, April 20th, 2010

Oops! 
… I did it again.
I played with your heart.
Got lost in the game.
Oh, baby; baby.
Oops!
… You think I’m in love.
That I’m sent from above…
I’m not that innocent.

I was reading the story of Israel’s continued disobedience in Judges 10:6-18 and the immortal words of Brittany Spears popped into my head, “Oops!… I did it again.” I didn’t know the words, just the title, so I googled the song and found the lyrics and a theological parallel to our text.  I think we are a lot like Brittany, we are not that innocent.  We play with God’s heart.  He loves us, He cherishes us, that much is clear as we look at the cross.  We like to look at God’s Word from our point of view.  What we can and cannot do.  If we don’t like one of the commands, we just justify it away and change it to fit our needs.  In Judges 10:6, we see that oops! … The Israelites did it again.  They did evil in the sight of the Lord.  In Judges 10:7, we see that God’s anger was kindled against them.  People claim a text like this shows God’s wrath and meanness.  I see His grace.  God is angry because we have damaged our relationship with Him. Think about it from God’s point of view.  His anger rises from our disobedience.  How many times would you women folk listen to your man say, “Oops!… I did it again,”  I cheated on you honey?  I am sure all of you women will say thats Ok, I love you and there is no problem (just to be clear, I am being sarcastic).  There is a problem!  Our disobedience to God deserves an angry response.  God is Holy and our cheating on Him is not acceptable because it breaks our relationship with Him.  It was not acceptable for Israel, nor, for us.  Brittany is right, we are not that innocent.  At least, I know I am not. I see the grace and innocence of God that He sends His innocent Son to die for us!

By the way, I can’t believe I made a theological argument using Brittany Spears.

Day 73: Mark 11:1-26 — A Closer Look…

Sunday, March 14th, 2010

Fig treeOpen your Bible with me to Mark Chapter 11. More specifically, I’d like to concentrate on Mark 11:12-26. The story about the fig tree is probably not new to you. For so many years I struggled with why Jesus was so angry at a tree. Doesn’t the scripture say that figs were not in season? Why would Jesus expect figs to be there? I wouldn’t go into a cotton field in May and expect there to be white bolls waiting to be picked. But if you read the passage a few times, and then look at the story sandwiched between the two encounters with the fig tree….it begins to make sense.

Beginning in verse 12, Jesus is hungry. He sees a fig tree from a distance “in leaf”. Expecting to find fruit, Jesus reaches out only to find that this tree, while appearing to be able to bear fruit, is nothing but leaves and no fruit. Let me stress two items: The purpose of this tree is to bear fruit. Secondly, from a distance, this tree appears to bear fruit. When the reality doesn’t match the purpose….Jesus is disappointed.

Jesus overthrowing the tables in the TempleStay with me here. Read on to Mark 11:15-17. Jesus enters the temple and drives out those that are buying and selling there. He overturns the money changer’s table and the benches of those selling doves. He says, “Is it not written: ’My house will be called a house of prayer for all nations’? But you have made it ‘a den of robbers.’” Let me stress two things: First, the purpose of the temple is to be a place of worship and prayer. Secondly, the reality of the temple doesn’t match purpose….Jesus is angry.

Coming back by the fig tree after leaving the temple, Peter points out that the fig tree has withered (Mark 11:20-21) Read on through Mark 11:22-26 and see that Jesus is telling us that our faith, obedience and action are our fruits to God.

A closer inspection by Jesus found that appearances can be deceiving. A leafy fig tree from a distance gave the false pretense that it would bear fruit. The temple appears to be a holy place but had, in fact, been turned into a “den of robbers”. You have a purpose. When you arose out of the water at your baptism your purpose changed. But does the reality of your life match your purpose? Does mine? Just as a fig tree bears fruit, you too are purposed with bearing fruit. The Master will take a closer look. What will he find?

Day 56: Mark 2:18-3:12 — Jesus is Angry

Thursday, February 25th, 2010

Have you ever had your buttons pushed? I worked for many years in the mental health field and this is one of the favorite terms of clinicians. The ironic thing is that mental health professionals love to talk about how clients push buttons but they never like to discuss how they themselves push their clients’ buttons. I guess that in remembering this, I have allowed my button to be pushed. I digress. Today, I want to try a different kind of post. Read Mark 2:1-3:6 and when you get to Mark 3:5, you will find that Jesus gets angry, why? We often get angry (assuming we are not neurotic) because we are passionate about something. I heard a quote once from John Lloyd Ogilvie that says, “Tell me what ticks you off, and I will tell you what makes you tick.” What makes Jesus tick? What ticks Jesus off? I will give you some hints. Look at the questions in Mark 2:1-12; Mark 2:13-17; Mark 2:18-22; Mark 2:23-28; and Mark 3:1-6.